Start somewhere familiar.
Choose a question they seem interested in, whether it is about a friend they grew up with or a place they still talk about. Give them time to tell it in their own way.
Let them use whichever language comes naturally. If you would like to record, ask first and let them know who you hope to share it with. You can always leave a question for another day.
Childhood before the move
- What did your neighborhood look like when you were growing up?
- Who did you spend time with after school?
- What did your family do on an ordinary weekend?
- What places from your childhood do you miss?
- What is a funny story from when you were young?
Language, food, and family traditions
- What expressions did people in your family use all the time?
- Is there a word or saying you wish I understood better?
- What meal reminds you most of home?
- How did your family celebrate special occasions?
- What family tradition would you like us to continue?
Making a home somewhere new
- If you feel like talking about it, what do you remember about your first days here?
- Who helped you feel welcome?
- What was something new that you enjoyed?
- Was there a familiar place, meal, or routine that helped you feel at home?
- What is a moment from those early years that you like remembering?
What they want the next generation to know
- What would you like us to know about the people who raised you?
- Is there a family story you would like the younger generation to hear?
- What do people sometimes misunderstand about where you grew up?
- What is something about your life that we have never really talked about?
- What would you like to ask me about growing up here?
Keep the meaning of the words, too.
When a saying, nickname, or place name comes up, ask what it means to them. A literal translation may not explain why a phrase is funny, affectionate, or important in your family.
You can return to an unfamiliar word afterward instead of interrupting the story. Keep the original recording so people can hear the voice and expression alongside any transcript or translation.
Record in the language they choose.
The expressions they use and the sound of their voice are part of the story. Full Days saves the original recording and offers on-device transcription for supported languages.
Supported transcripts can be translated into English on an iPhone with iOS 18 or later and the required language downloads. Availability varies by device and language. An active trial or subscription is required for new recordings and translations.
Decide together how to keep the story.
Before sharing a recording, check who they are comfortable sending it to. Stories can include details about other family members as well as the person speaking.
Some conversations are just for the people having them. It is fine to put the phone aside and simply enjoy the time together.